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Q634:  I was engaged to a veteran for 16 years, and before we got married he had a stroke, and spent the last 4 years in the hospital, nursing home and at home with me taking care of him. Then he passes away. I just wanted to know is there any way I could get his pension since got married?

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A1:  If you were not legally married to the veteran for a year prior to his passing it is unlikely that you can get the death pension, providing he was a wartime veteran. Some states still recognize common law marriage. If you are in one of those states, I would seek out a Veteran Service Officer near you who can help you file for the death pension.  (DS)  1/8/21

    

A2:  Unfortunately when the Veteran passes away the disability payment ceases. If he had been rated at 100% you could qualify for the DIC. I know a lot of information is out there regarding benefits but it not all true as you need to know the qualifications for it.  (GR)  1/8/21

    

A3:  Sounds like you were a care taker. Go to veterans commission where you live and ask for what you need to do.  (EA)  1/8/21

    

A4:  No, you were not "legally" his dependant.  (KD)  1/8/21

         

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

 

         

A5:  Hello. You will not be eligible for "his pension" but you may be eligible for surviving spouse benefit. I would suggest you see a local VSO or DAV representative that can help you submit the paperwork. I am not sure of the exact amount for surviving spouse benefit at the current time. I hope this helps you and good luck.  (RC)  1/8/21

         

A6:  My bet is No.  Not married, there is no legal connection to you.
I suggest you contact an "S-O" who would know for sure. They are Service Officers that are Free and help all veterans get their benefits.
What I do know is:> If a Veteran gets a divorce, The divorced partner "Cannot Get That VA Compensation.  Military Career Pension is like a job and that is different.  Call and get an appointment with an "SO."  (CS)  1/24/21